The reality is that you are in control of the bonds that tie you. The advice is to stop resisting, and pulling against it, it is only then that the binding will loosen and you will feel the freedom that was always there.
As the moon cycle moves so do you. Allow the natural rhythms to guide you. Male or female, we all feel the tug of the moon’s pull, much as the ocean does. At those times of full and new moon, give yourself a sacred moment and pay attention to the feelings that arise. Speak your truths, wishes, and gratitude during these times.